refactor: improve connection message suppressing in discord and logger

i also saw nbot, fnf bot, and other bots copying the message, so i changed that too, hopefully no one skids it again

src/main/java/me/chayapak1/chomens_bot/Bot.java

@@ -65,6 +65,9 @@ public class Bot extends SessionAdapter {
 
     public boolean printDisconnectedCause = false;
 
+    public int connectingTimes = 0;
+    public int disconnectedTimes = 0;
+
     public boolean loggedIn = false;
     public long loginTime;
 
@@ -180,6 +183,8 @@ public class Bot extends SessionAdapter {
     private void reconnect () {
         if (session != null) session = null; // does this do nothing?
 
+        connectingTimes++;
+
         for (final Listener listener : listeners) {
             listener.connecting();
         }
@@ -241,6 +246,8 @@ public class Bot extends SessionAdapter {
     private void packetReceived (final ClientboundLoginPacket ignoredPacket) {
         loggedIn = true;
         loginTime = System.currentTimeMillis();
+        connectingTimes = 0;
+        disconnectedTimes = 0;
 
         for (final SessionListener listener : listeners) {
             listener.connected(new ConnectedEvent(session));
@@ -359,6 +366,8 @@ public class Bot extends SessionAdapter {
     public void disconnected (final DisconnectedEvent disconnectedEvent) {
         loggedIn = false;
 
+        disconnectedTimes++;
+
         final Throwable cause = disconnectedEvent.getCause();
 
         if (printDisconnectedCause && cause != null) logger.error(cause);